The Road to Happily Ever After...After All

Moving Day!

2008-12-28T23:14:00.011-05:00

Packing for moving day! I threw him clothes to put in the box!

And he threw them back! No more room!

Justin, his dad and Zach arrived at my house with the U-Haul to transport our stuff over to the apartment.
Jason was there to help get my hope chest out safely. For the record, this did not weigh as much as Aimee's.

Lots of room to spare!

And away they go!

A few weeks prior, we moved our mattress over to the apartment thanks to the help of Justin, his dad, Zach and Scipio! I know we fit right in, trekking down Route 40 with a mattress tied to the back of our truck...

=) Nevertheless, it arrived safely and we now have a very comfortable mattress to sleep on!

Thank you everyone for your help! I still have a little more packing to do, but we are almost there!

We are Legal!

2008-12-22T10:55:00.005-05:00

Does that really say we only have 12 days until we get married??
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Our to do list is slowing coming to an end!

Lately we are working on Programs, Music Playlists, Vows, Centerpieces, Moving, Marriage License, Honeymoon Packing, Timeline Typing, Table Seating, Place Card Settings, and falling more and more in love with each other everyday. Life is good!

Justin was sworn in at the courthouse today! He picked up our Marriage License and in his exact words, "It's official....stop with those second thoughs! I had to swear in! Basically swearing to love you for the rest of our lives."

How romantic.

Mood as of right now: I want to be Mrs. Justin Gischel right now!

The World of Beauty

2008-12-16T09:36:00.004-05:00

Using the correct make-up and colors on your wedding day can be a daunting task for the typical bride and even though I consider myself to be on top of my make-up skills, I still chose to have a consultation wtih a make-up artist to choose the wedding day materials. I am so glad I made this decision, these make-up artists do not mess around, they really know what they are talking about! She took into consideration so many factors such as time of day of the wedding, lighting, photography, length of wear, hairstyle and skin type. As well as preparing me for the big day, she also gave me some make-up tips and shortcuts for everyday wear. I most definitely recommend this for each bride-to-be!

We are all set!

2008-12-15T11:00:00.019-05:00

*If I knew that none of my bridesmaids read this blog, I would post pictures of the gifts that I have for them, but since I know they do, sorry guys, you will have to wait!! I will say...I am very happy with my choice!

The ladies of New Covenant Presbyterian Church threw me a bridal shower on Saturday! Even though this was my 3rd shower, I don't think I could ever get sick of it or become desensitized to the generosity that people have poured out to us. We are genuinely overwhelmed by all of the gifts and love that has been showered onto us. Thank you all so much for showing your love to us! We are so grateful to have a church family that cares so lovingly for us. We pray that you will continue to show us your love through our years of marriage, as we learn the same love for each other.

Here are a few items that we received on Saturday:

There are many other things that aren't on here that we also received, but this just gives you an idea of the fun stuff we received on Saturday! So much fun!

Congratulations Justin!!!!

2008-12-12T10:18:00.004-05:00

Justin and I would like to thank everyone for their encouragement and prayers during these past few months. Justin took his final exam for the semester on Wednesday, December 10th and he passed with an 85%! The weight that has been lifted off of his shoulders is tremendous and the relief is undescribable! We know that no matter what the grade, God has planned our future, but we are both so thankful that we can enter into the next phase of our lives as husband and wife, with Justin still in nursing school! Please send your congratulations his way, he has worked SO hard for this and spent countless hours and emily-less days in preparation for our future! He has one more semester to go! Love you babe!! Congratulations!!!

Guest Book

2008-12-11T10:35:00.007-05:00

Love it!!

The Limo

2008-12-10T12:16:00.008-05:00

We thought about veto'ing the idea of having a Limo to avoid an "unnecessary" expense, but the more we thought and talked about transportation on the day of the wedding, the more we realized, we do need the help of a Limo company.

From the very first phone call with Joanna, the owner of the compay "Limo Lady", the experience has been a very pleasant one. Her prices are the best around and her service so far has been outstanding. You can read numerous reviews and compliments on her services, on the wedding wire. They were also voted the Knot's Pick of 2008! We are very excited to be working with this company for our wedding!

Wishes, Wisdom & Women

2008-12-10T08:26:00.010-05:00

The Gischels threw my second Bridal Shower over the weekend and it was so much fun! Thank you all for your hard work and the delicious food! Everything was beautiful!

We received our toasting glasses from Aunt Laurie and Uncle David! Thanks guys! They are gorgeous!!

Justin showed up towards the end of the shower for his special gift from Mom-Mom Dekker!

It was a great day! And to top it off we had a beautiful icing of snow! Thank you all for your generosity, it is greatly appreciated!!

Our Cake Topper!

2008-12-09T08:22:00.004-05:00

My mom found the perfect cake topper at Pottery Barn! It's the perfect size and weight! It's actually an ornament-- very shiny and sparkly in person. =) I will be dropping it off to our cake decorator soon! Love it!

A Hidden Gem

2008-12-07T22:34:00.014-05:00

There is a flower warehouse in downtown Baltimore called

Claymore C. Sieck

that is open to the public for discount flowers and supplies. This place is heaven on earth for a do-it-yourself bride. It is a hidden gem in downtown Baltimore-and definitely worth your time! I highly reccommend this place for your wedding supplies--their customer service is impecable!

My parents and I ventured down on Saturday morning to check out the merchandise and we were pleasantly surprised by the outcome. From the beginning the sales-people are at your beckon call helping you with ideas and pricing. We were helped by a sales-woman who does weddings on the side and she definitely went above and beyond to help us out. After roaming the aisles for a few minutes we came across these painted white birch branches. These are what I have been looking for!! We had seen them in Michael's and ACMoore but they were highly priced there. The prices at Claymore C. Siek are unbeatable! We also found some accents to hang from the branches and we are set! We walked out with smiles and boxes full of Winter Wonderland supplies.

Here is a rough sample of the centerpiece.

Showers of Blessings

2008-11-30T18:50:00.009-05:00

I am truly blessed.

My mom and sisters through me my first bridal shower and it was such a BEAUTIFUL shower! I love them so much, they worked so hard and made it such a special day for me. It was such a strange feeling to be that girl opening the presents in front of everyone. I loved every second of it!!

Sarah, my sister-in-law, made me a cookbook of all of our family recipes. It is such a creative gift, love it!!

The Bridesmaids! (all except for Christie, we missed you!)

Justin and I are so grateful and overwhelmed by everyone's generosity! We took everything over to the apartment and found a spot for each thing. It's starting to look like home!

One Step Closer to Getting Married!!

2008-11-09T09:30:00.012-05:00

The invitation process was so painless! I found an AMAZING deal online for the invitations and response cards. We printed everything ourselves and there you have it!

We used Rach and Ry's inkjet printer....

and spent an evening printing the invitations, response cards and labels...

Very happy with the final product!

We spent Saturday evening assembling the invites and they are stuffed, labeled, stamped and ready to go!

Thank you all for your help! Invitations will be arriving in your mailboxes soon!

The Flower Girl Dresses Are In!

2008-11-06T09:53:00.011-05:00

Close-up

Front

Back

It's only appropriate for my little flower girls to be wearing pink!

Introducing the Flower Girls

Audrey

(niece of the bride)

and

Hannah

(cousin of the groom)

They are an adorable addition to the wedding party!

Let them eat CAKE!

2008-11-05T09:16:00.003-05:00

Sweet Temptations is a very appropriate name for this bakery!

We came hungry and left satisfied! I hadn't made up my mind completely on what type of cake I wanted for the wedding, but before we left we were very comfortable with the decisions we made! The cake samples were delicious and the staff was very helpful and accomodating. We are so excited to see the end product the day of the wedding! I won't give away everything, but I will tell you we have chosen 4 different flavors, so the cake is sure to please everyone!

The shop has a large variety of styles to choose from or you can bring in a print out of your own to mimick. This is the print out I gave to the staff and they are sure they can customize my cake to look the same!

I am still looking for my cake topper, I would prefer a snowflake as seen in the picture above, so I am scouring the internet! Suggestions are appreciated!!

Sneak Preview!

2008-10-29T10:54:00.019-04:00

Last night I ran a few errands, here is what I came up with.

Place cards:

We will be attaching each one of these cute little tags to a pinecone for the place cards. I haven't decided if we will be hand writing each tag or if I will use clear labels. Each card will be embellished with a snowflake detail. Any suggestions?

The Exit:

Here is an idea of what we will be doing for the exit. We opted to be different from the typical bubbles or rice farewell --we are going with a sleigh bells idea. I purchased bells and we will be making our own tags with some sort of "Thank you for being part of our day" saying.

Reception Cards:

Tomorrow evening we will be doing all of the printing of the invitations, response cards and labels for the envelopes. We are using Rachel and Ryan's printer (thanks guys!!) for everything except for the reception cards. I had these printed at Staples on white card stock, double sided, 4 to a page and they cut them in quarters for me! So here is a plug for my old stomping ground, they turned out amazing!! Here is a preview:

The Card Holder:

And lastly but certainly not least I have found the Sleigh we will be using on our gift table as the card holder. It's so cute! This is not a picture of the exact one I bought from Michaels Craft store but it is very similar. Here's your preview:

Let me know what you think!

It's official!

2008-10-28T10:22:00.004-04:00

Our applications were turned in on Friday. By Monday we were approved!!

We are so thrilled to pack up our stuff and move in! We originally hadn't planned on moving anything in until December 1st, but the landlord offered to give us the month of November for free!!! (we will pay that stinkin BGE bill though)

Justin will move in first and I will move in after the wedding. So as of this Saturday, November 1st, the apartment is ours!

We feel so blessed and are are so thankful God has been in control of this whole situation. Monday morning my heart was racing, wondering what the outcome of the whole situtation would be and by Monday afternoon our prayers were answered. God certainly put me in my place through a loving sister's words telling me not to worry, knowing that God has everything under control. After resolving myself to the fact that there is nothing I can do to control the situation, I gave my hopes and worries over to God and within minutes--Justin was calling me to tell me we were approved. Life is full of sanctifying moments like this! Thank you all for your prayers and encouragement!!

Linens: Check

2008-10-26T19:36:00.002-04:00

Saturday my parents and I took a trip down to the reception site to talk about linens. I took a sample centerpiece down to make sure it would be the appropriate size for the tables and the room. We are going to find some tealight candles in either silver or blue to put around the centerpiece. We chose white linens with a sort of swirly pattern--this includes the tablecloths and the napkins. We chose the white to create the winter wonderland feel and we will accessorize with sliver and blue for the icy look. Everything is falling into place!!

And just in case you didn't realize....
Justin and I are getting married in 2 months and 8 days!!!!

Tell me what you think!

2008-10-23T08:57:00.007-04:00

I've been beefing up my wedding registry lately...people have told me that it's always better to have too much on your registry than not enough!!

So what I want to know is....

What is the ONE thing in your house, that you cannot live without?

Let me know!

And in case you want to check out my Registries:

I am registered at

Bed, Bath and Beyond

Target

and

Crate and Barrel

UPDATE

2008-10-22T09:04:00.005-04:00

We looked at one last apartment last night and it was quite an experience!

Let me list the reasons why we are not taking it:

1. The landlord yelled at Justin for parking in the wrong direction.
2. The landlord showed it to us in the dark.
3. There was no counter space in the kitchen.
4. The landlord showed it to us in the dark.
5. The landlord showed it to us in the dark.

Here is a glimpse of the apartment

Seriously, why would you show someone an apartment in the dark, with a flashlight?!?

We have made a decision on which apartment we are renting though! The pictures you see in the blog below will be where we will be living! It is a one bedroom apartment located in the downtown historic section of Havre de Grace. We are sooo excited about it!!! We can't wait to move in and get settled!!

The search may be over!

2008-10-19T21:55:00.005-04:00

We are thinking that this apartment may be IT! We are still thinking about it and may look at one other place, but this is our #1 for now!

Testing...1-2-3

2008-10-09T11:13:00.003-04:00

Mock-up #1

This is a rough draft of the centerpieces.

We basically grabbed some branches from our backyard pine trees and sprayed them with fake snow, then ran to the craft store and purchased some silk stephanotis flowers and silver sparkely branches. The centerpiece needs some more to it, but that's the basic idea! This will be paired with tea lights around the base of the vase to give it extra glow and shine. The stephanotis will carry over to the brides and bridemaids bouquets so it all ties together!

Seeing Eye to Eye

2008-10-07T09:19:00.002-04:00

Justin and I had another counseling session on Friday night, where we discovered that we do indeed know each other!! --- according to our assessments of each other.

We had to rate each other's personality trates on a scale of 1-10. It made for an interesting discussion, thankfully we both know our strengths and weaknesses! It definitely helps that we have known each other for a bazillion years. It scares me to think that some people enter marriages without excepting the imperfection in their future spouse-to-be. I'm so thankful that we can look, see and love each other -- the good and the bad in each other.

We are also starting a new book called, A Long Obedience in the Same Direction-by Eugene Peterson (who is also the author of The Message). This isn't your typical marriage counseling book, it is more of a life counseling book. I sat down to read the first few chapters and it really is a book that challenges your Christian walk and putting action to your faith. I'm excited to keep reading!

Centerpieces

2008-10-01T18:41:00.002-04:00

The FedEx man is going to love us.
On Sunday I ordered the vases for our centerpieces at the reception! All 24 of them will arrive at my house in the next day or so! I used a really cool website, called koyalwholesale.com. It looks like a site that alot of companys would use to buy in bulk. It really came in handy for these vases because they give a great bulk discount! They also offer great ideas on centerpieces and ceremony decorations.
Preparations are on there way, we are almost there!! Little by little odds and ends are being tied up.
I used to hate that stores would push the winter season on the consumer at such an early time, but now I find myself getting excited to see them put out the trees and lights and holiday decorations....It's almost time!!!
On another note...if anyone can track down a miniature sleigh for me, I am looking for one to use as a card holder!!

Alterations

2008-09-30T10:53:00.003-04:00

I dropped my dress off last night! My first fitting after alterations is on November 17th!

Blessings in Disguise

2008-09-24T15:47:00.005-04:00

On Saturday I walked into a Bridal Boutique intending only to rent a slip for my wedding day. As I walked up to the door of the boutique, with wedding gown in hand, I see a HUGE sign pronouncing that they are going out of business.

Obviously, I almost had a mini stroke because I have to have my slip by my first dress fitting. As I walked into the crowded room, I made my way over to the lady who looked like she was in charge to find out that they are closing there doors in November after 50 some years of business. She told me that I couldn't rent a slip, but that she did have some that I could buy, for only 20 bucks! So obviously, I bought one. So cheap! As I tried on my dress with slip underneath she mentioned that everything is 50% off. So sneakily, she stuck a veil on my head, asking if I had purchased my veil or headpiece yet. So here I am, in my beautiful dress with just the right amount of poof staring into a mirror at a veil that is almost as beautiful as the dress! I have struck gold. I bought my veil, slip and hair accessory for a grand total of---wait, I'm not telling you how much I spent. =) But I will tell you, I got away with a STEAL. I almost ran out of the shop before they could realize what I had done! I LOVE my new stuff and I can't wait to show it off!!

At Last

2008-09-22T09:00:00.002-04:00

My love has come along...

I ordered them on Thursday! Can't wait to see them in person!

Measurements

2008-09-18T15:51:00.015-04:00

Justin and I made a trip to Haebler Memorial Chapel last week to take some measurements of the chapel. He had yet to see the place where we will tie our vows and he loved it! We wanted to get a few ideas for how to decorate the church and measure the front to plan on where to put our very large, but very important Bridal Party. We have a table at the front where we will put our Unity Candles and a flower arrangement. We are also trying to figure out the sound system. Because the chapel is pretty old, we want to make sure we will be able to properly work it!

Justin and Matt Barker are going to take another trip on Saturday to look at the speakers and figure it all out...hopefully! This will determine if we will be using live music or recorded music. The do have an organ and a piano, so we are thinking of using those!

The day Katie and I took on Martha Stewart

2008-09-13T22:01:00.026-04:00

I have to admit, I'm pretty proud of Katie and I.

I knew we were good, but I wasn't sure just how good.

We were on a mission to test out some centerpiece ideas for the wedding. I have an image in my mind and a plan to make it happen--today was test #1 to see if it was feasable.

Step 1: Stick Picking

We spent about 15 minutes in Justin's backyard looking for "long, pretty sticks", and this is what we came up with.

While wating for the sticks dry out in the sun for a little while...we went to Starbucks to rejuvenate after the grueling stick picking.

Step 2: Gather your Supplies

Over the past few weeks I have been doing my research on "How to Ice Branches". Most of my ideas came from this amazing website, Save-on-crafts.com. I recommend this website to anyone who is trying to DIY crafts--it's great! The website recommends using Vase Filler for your crystals which Rachel found at AC Moore--so no shipping needed for that! One of the sales representatives at Michaels recommended Sea Salt for the crystalizing--which we tried...but the Vase Filler Crystals are much better.

Step 3: Spray Adhesive Glue on the Branches

This is pretty self explanatory--The website recommends using Tacky Glue--but after I bought the Tacky Glue I immediately returned it to buy Spray Adhesive...this project was already messy enough to not have to deal with having Tacky Glue all over my hands. The Spray Adhesive works great.

Step 4: Roll the Stick in the Crystals

First we rolled the branches in the Vase Filler and the crystals stuck really easily without much force. The second trial was with the Sea Salt--this one didn't work quite as well and they kept falling off.

The Final Product

We also spayed some Pine Tree leaves with some Fake Snow that will be added into the mix:

So far, it seems as though these centerpiece ideas will work! I am searching high and low for 12 inch Glass Trumpet Vases to use for each table. Overall, it was a pretty successful day!

They're Here!!!

2008-09-04T10:35:00.009-04:00

We can officially get in and out of the country!

St. Lucia here we come...!!!

Please Mister Postman, Look and See

2008-09-02T20:21:00.011-04:00

If there's a letter in your bag for me.....

Our Save the Dates are finished and mailed! I would suspect that many of you have opened your mailbox today to find a precious little save the date card waiting for you inside!!

=) From our hearts to yours...

Assembling Night:

We spent the evening assembling, tying teeney-tiney bows, addressing envelopes and applying postage stamps. Yes, that is a wine glass you see there on the table--Wine was a much needed friend to help us assemble 100 of these little guys!

And the Final Product!

Perfect Fit

2008-09-02T13:00:00.006-04:00

Last week Justin and I went to Men's Warehouse to check out the tuxes. We hadn't intended to make any decisions that day, but as we flipped through the books and looked through the samples, it was easy to decide. Justin made most of the decisions and I only interjected when it was completely necessary. =D

The final decision was made and our reservation number has been set! The style of vest and tie chosen for the groomsmen is from the Bellagio Collection in silver with a Pin Striped Tux from the Calvin Klein Collection. Justin has a different vest and tie than his groomsmen but the same style Tuxedo. Like many other decisions we've made throughout this wedding planning process, this was an easy and smooth choice to make.

The Odds and Ends

2008-08-28T09:06:00.005-04:00

Birth certificates...

Guest Lists...

Stamps...

Paperwork...

Save the dates...

Calendars...

Ring Sizing...

Scheduling Appointments...

Counseling...

Flowers...

Joint Checking...

Apartment Searching...

Alterations...

Deposits...

Tuxes...

Passports...

These are just a few of the things we have been working on over the last few weeks...so much to do in such a short amount of time! Small important jobs to be done that add up to one large goal--Our Wedding. Our Future. Our Lives.

Summer lovin' had me a blast

2008-08-21T21:50:00.005-04:00

Summer sun, something's begun, but uh-oh those summer nights

It's hard to believe that this summer will soon be coming to an end...It's hard to believe this is my last summer as an unmarried woman. With that being said....the countdown continues.

We Only Have 134 More Days!

As the days pass so quickly, I am finding myself dwindling down the task list equally as fast. Today I contacted Johnathan's Florist, and set up a consult to talk about flowers and bouquets for the ceremony. My sister used this florist for her wedding and she had really great results and beautiful flowers that lasted all day. According to all of the reviews I have read on him, he really takes the time to coordinate every little detail, from the color of the bridesmaid dresses to the style of my engagement ring to the mood we are trying to portray. Who would have thought flowers could contribute in such a way? Here is an idea of what I'm thinking for my bouquet.

I have also set up my first dress fitting for a weekend in October!! I am really excited about this. =D I have to find my shoes before my first dress fitting, so I am on the hunt!

Our Photographer

2008-08-14T21:45:00.010-04:00

Tonight Justin and I went to a Wedding Showcase to find a photographer. After talking with several different photographers and looking through several demo books and packages, we have narrowed down our choice to Allan Yaker who is contracted through The Pros, voted the Knots Best of Weddings. They also offer Disc Jockey services and we are considering them for this also. We are very happy with our choice and so excited to have another thing crossed off of the to do list!

Doors

2008-08-13T15:25:00.005-04:00

Alot of exciting things have been happening in our lives! God has been opening so many doors lately, which has been extremely encouraging in this dry spell as we are waiting, waiting, waiting.

We have been praying for God to give Justin a job in the medical field and the good news is....He's hired! He will be interning at...

Harford Memorial Hospital, in Havre de Grace, MD,

Which is...drum roll....

the EXACT place that we wanted to live!! Seriously, how could we doubt that God would provide? Pray for Justin as he starts his orientation next week!

On the apartment front, we will be touring some apartments in about a month and we are hopeful to start the lease in November. Thank you all for your prayers!

Advice to Newlyweds

2008-07-21T15:29:00.002-04:00

I stumbled across this article and thought it was worth the quick read. It sounds pretty good to me, but I'm not quite a Newlywed just yet. So what's the word on the street? What's the best advice ya'll can give?

Fight Fair. It is okay to argue with one another as long as you fight fair. Pick your battles. What you argued about today may seem so very important but chances are you won't remember it a few years from now.

Date One Another. Although staying home and watching a movie or enjoying some quiet time together is important, getting out of the house and having a date with one another is one of the keys to having a successful marriage.

Talk to One Another. Your spouse is not a mind reader. Don't jump to conclusions. Share what you want and what you don't want and what you like and what you don't like. Share your thoughts and feelings when the two of you have decisions to make.

Have Fun and Enjoy One Another. This seems like a given, but newlyweds often put work and making money on a higher priority than having fun. Don't wait to have fun. You can have fun without spending a lot of money.

Your Jobs Can Hurt Your Marriage. Yes, being successful in your careeers and earning enough money to keep the roof over your heads is important. However, work is not the most important thing in life. Don't let your jobs interfere with your marriage.

Let Go of Past Hurts. You will make mistakes. Your spouse will make mistakes. You will both say things you don't really mean. You both need to forgive and to be forgiven.

Draw the Line With Your In-Laws. Set boundaries with your in-laws right away. If you don't, problems with your respective families will continue throughout your marriage.

A work in progress

2008-07-17T10:11:00.002-04:00

Last night, Justin and I met with Wendy Lankford, our save-the-date designer, to sit down and discuss some ideas for our Save-the-Dates. She has been a Stampin' Up representative for a few years and has the natural talent of craftiness. With her ideas combined with ours, we have a beautiful save-the-date in the works.
We are hoping to have them signed, sealed and delivered by the end of July!

Next on the agenda...Photographer....

Time out for Shopping

2008-07-14T10:50:00.008-04:00

We have been BUSY!

Family trips, camping trips, work, everyday life and fleeting thoughts of all of the things I have to do for this wedding have filled our time and made the 11 months that seemed SO LONG in the beginning turn into 5 and a half! Where has the time gone??

This past weekend my parents and I ventured out to Leesburg, VA for some shopping and quality time spent together, as their baby prepares to leave them empty nested! We shopped till we dropped, buying everything from future kitchen supplies to honeymoon outfits.

My favorite purchase...the corn dishes. These are a few items among many others! Saturday we spent the day at the outlets and ended with an evening at the Cheesecake Factory, where we ate until we were stuffed to the rafters. Sunday we headed to Tyson's Corner to do some more shopping at the malls there. I will cherish these memories always and I am so appreciative to have parents that love me and are so giving in everything they do. Love you guys!

The B-day bash and the new addition to our family

2008-06-30T12:53:00.008-04:00

Crabs, Beer, Good Friends and Good Presents...

A few weeks ago, Gish and I celebrated our 26th Birthdays together. It was a fun day celebrating with friends and family, some of which we hadn't seen since we got engaged! Justin is enjoying his "new" Mustang and has promised to put as much money into our ING account as he puts into the car. At that rate, we'll be millionaires in no time. =D

The Top Ten Strangest Marriage Laws In The Country

2008-06-16T10:24:00.003-04:00

In Alabama: Incestuous marriages are perfectly legal. While every other state has seen fit to outlaw the marriage of those related by blood, it seems as though there will always be one maverick state thumbing his nose at “the man!”

In South Carolina: If a man promises to marry a woman, he is legally obligated to go through with it. If you live in South Carolina and are thinking about being a run-away groom, think again, or you may find yourself out-running the long arm of the law! It might also pay to make sure the rooms of your house aren’t bugged with microphones: you wouldn’t want to let a half joking/half serious wedding proposal be used against you!

In Tennessee: Interracial marriages are still illegal. Apparently the Tennessee government has yet to catch up to the Civil Rights movement, although it’s unclear as to whether anyone in the Tennessee government would have the audacity to try and enforce such a strange law in the present day!

In North Carolina: A marriage can be legally declared void if one of the partners is found to be physically impotent. Let this serve as a great back-door for any regretful men married in North Carolina, where the waiting list to have a vasectomy is probably longer than the waiting list to see a Tar Heels game during the Final Four!

In Kentucky: It is illegal to marry the same man more than three times. We’re not sure why anyone would try the same failed marriage for a fourth time, but suffice it to say that anyone so persistent in their love will need to find another state to get hitched it.

In Utah: There apparently isn’t much of a social stigma against marrying within the family. If you and your cousin forged an irreplaceable romantic spark at all those family reunions over the years, fear not! In Utah, you just need to wait until you are both 50 years old. At that point, your marriage will be fully encouraged and sanctioned by the state.

In Wisconsin: The boundaries of marriage have been extended into unprecedented territory, covering the sacred bond between a man and his home! You heard right: in Wisconsin, it is acceptable for a man or woman to literally marry the home that they live in. With this in mind, you might want to be skeptical of any Wisconsin residents who tell you “yep, she’s a beauty” while pointing proudly at their homes!

In Texas: There is no need to spend months or years planning every agonizing detail of your wedding to perfection in Texas. Forget the caterers, forget the music, and forget the photographers! All you need to do is publicly introduce someone as your husband or wife three times, and legally you are married!

In Lebanon, Virginia: It is actually illegal for a husband to kick his wife out of bed! We’re not too sure how many husbands are dying to do that anyway, but it sheds a whole new light on why it’s always the woman kicking the guy out to the living room couch and not the other way around!

In Arizona: It is okay for a man to beat his wife so long as it only happens once a month. Ladies beware; this might not be the state for you. Men if you find it appalling that some women will stay in abusive marriages, it should blow your mind to know that there are entire states that sanction it!

I guess living in Maryland isn't so bad after all!! Minus the housing market...

Giving credit where credit is due

Some Inspiration

2008-06-11T15:58:00.011-04:00

It's fun to stay at the Y-M-C-A

2008-06-02T10:54:00.003-04:00

My body hurts in places I had forgotten I had muscles....but it's all worth it! Justin and I are getting into shape together for our big wedding day!!

Justin has belonged to the gym for about 6 months and I decided to break down and join last week. They have a family package that we will utilize when we get married which is pretty affordable.

They have alot of equipment, brand new facilities and tons of classes---even ballroom dancing lessons! I can definitely see how families would love a place like this, with all of the camps, classes and fun events they offer.

Wedding Bands

2008-05-27T15:46:00.004-04:00

This...

is going to buy us

This...

Thanks Uncle Sam!!!

Hairstyles

2008-05-22T16:30:00.005-04:00

Option A:

Option B:

Option C:

What do ya'll think? I have always envisioned myself with my hair down on my wedding day--I guess I would be open to the up-do's also...I just haven't seen anything that has really popped out at me for those. I don't want to look completely over the top when it comes to hair and make-up, but feel free to make any suggestions!

2 Years Together...

2008-05-20T07:59:00.003-04:00

and falling more and more in love every day...

We have a Reception Site!!

2008-05-19T09:17:00.005-04:00

The reception site has been chosen!!!

Shew, what a relief! A burden feels like it has been lifted from my shoulders. After some contemplation, blood, sweat and tears--actually no tears--i'm staying quite dry, thanks. =)-- we have concurrently decided this is the place we want to share in our celebration with all of you!

Summit Manor Ballroom

Typically this site is vendored out for two events at a time, but we have decided to rent the entire site so that we are not disturbed by anyone else's events. The upper ballroom will be used as a bridal suite where the bridal party will enjoy some appetizers and drinks prior to being announced at the reception. The lower ballroom accomodates 175 people and this is where our reception will be held.

We are so excited to have this checked off of our to-do list!!

Not at all wedding related...

2008-05-16T11:29:00.008-04:00

I stole this from Sarah!! =D

Directions:

1. Go to photobucket.com

2. Type in your "answer" to each question below.

3. Use only the first page!

1. What is your current relationship status?

2. What is your current mood?

3. What is your favorite movie?

4. Who is your favorite band/singer?

5. Where do you live?

6. Where do you work?

7. What do you look like?

8. What do you drive?

9. What's your favorite tv show?

10. Describe yourself.

11. What are you doing today?

12. What did you do last night?

13. What is your name?

See question 7.

Enjoy your weekend!!!

Taste Testing

2008-05-15T11:58:00.003-04:00

We were ooohd and aaahd by Jim, the chef of Hunt Valley Catering at Summit Manor as he prepared an exquisite feast to delight our senses.

The Menu

We were first enticed with a spread of Hor D' eurves ranging from seasame chicken skewers to shrimp egg rolls to scallops wrapped in bacon to spanakopita. There were so many that I just couldn't keep track! Following the hor d' eurves, we were served with a filet mignon topped with a mushroom sauce, steamed vegetables and potatoes. They vendor out to Sweet Temptations for our wedding cake--we will have a separate meeting with them to taste test that!

The Reaction

The tasting was excellent and they provide great one on one service. You can tell that they are very accomodating and willing to work with you in any means possible. My initial reaction was to book them immediately, but we are taking a few days to think about it!

Catch Up!

2008-05-14T09:51:00.008-04:00

I've been lazy...I apologize. =D

Wedding plans have been simmering...the ball is rolling with most things. We have a taste testing tonight with Hunt Valley Catering and my taste buds are ready for something delicious! I have been faxing menu ideas back and forth with the coordinator there--designing our own menu has been fun!

Other than that, I have just been enjoying being engaged. Everyonce in a while I will still look down at the bling on my left ring finger and my heart will skip a beat. This saturday, Justin and I will celebrate our 2 year anniversary! It's hard to believe it has been 2 years, it feels like yesterday that we (I) so nervously transitioned from being just friends to much much more.

And now...something to make you laugh:

RSVP Choices

The traditional...

People need options right?
And of course there is always the one or two guests you would love to send this to...

There is hope for this reception after all!

2008-05-03T11:22:00.003-04:00

Friday we went to two reception venues. The first one was just, eh, ok. We walked out feeling like we could do better.
The second venue was with Hunt Valley Catering at Summit Manor. This venue was much better and left us filled with hope that we may actually be onto something here. We have a taste testing set up and we are working on our menu. They will customize your menu according to your wishes and wants, which we have found to be extremely helpful. They offer an all inclusive package, minus the linens. More details to come after the taste testing!!

Update on the Dresses

2008-05-01T12:35:00.002-04:00

The bridesmaid dresses are all in and accounted for!!

I feel better.

Our Officiant

2008-04-30T08:32:00.010-04:00

Finding the right person to marry us is an important decision--after all they will have a huge part in setting the tone of the ceremony. We wanted our officiant to play a personal role in our lives and to have the same belief system that we hold. Our choice was easy. This weekend Justin and I had the opportunity to ask one of our favorite people,

Pastor Robert Dekker

aka

Uncle Robert

to officiate our wedding. Since he lives in Florida we were grateful for the opportunity to be able to ask him in person. Of course he said YES! He has played an important role in Justin's life-he was his pastor while Justin lived in Florida for college and has made a large impact on his relationship with God and has helped to shape his world views.

I can see God's fingerprints so clearly in the plans that He has layed out for our lives...If Justin had never moved to Florida, he may have never been introduced to a PCA church which means he would not be attending a PCA church now and we may have never started dating. Obviously, God's plan is much better than anything we could picture. It's hard to see at times why God has us make certain decisions, but looking back, this stands out so clearly as an example of His providencial love. If you would have asked us 5 years ago about marrying each other, we both would have looked at you like you had 3 heads. Neither Justin or I thought that we would be exchanging vows on January 3, 2009, but God's plan is much more beautiful than anything I could have ever imagined.

Add new task? I think not.

2008-04-28T12:32:00.005-04:00

According to my checklist on theknot.com I have 22 items overdue. That's the understatement of the year.

Overdue library books sit in my car, as we speak.

I'm pretty sure I threw that checklist out the window about 2 weeks into the wedding planning process. I am now much more aware of my lack of enthusiasm towards schedules and timelines.

The wedding industry has tried over and over to infiltrate my life with the consumerism that this nation has bought into, literally. Only by God's grace have I not been overtaken by the bridezilla monster that is hidden inside every female mind.

Hassle

2008-04-23T18:15:00.006-04:00

I officially dealt with my first wedding hassle

I have to admit, there haven't been many snags in the road to happily ever after--- so having my first one hasn't put me over the edge completely. One of the dresses arrived from Ann Taylor with a pen mark on it, so of course it had to be sent back and exchanged! I can't have my maid of honor dressed in anything but perfection! The dress is on it's way back to them and the new one should arrive any day now.

Also I have been waiting for one of the other dresses to arrive...it still hasn't arrived, I called 1-800-Shop Ann, or something like that, and they told me it was entered incorrectly, so they took care of it for me today. For making what could have been a fatal blunder, they sure know how to take care of their mistakes. I was pleasantly suprised with the customer service skills and how quickly they are taking care of things. They assured me I would have the dress in the comfort of my own home, in a matter of days.

Aside from the dress issues, everything is running beautifully. We are still looking for a reception venue that suits our needs, but I know the perfect setting is just waiting to be discovered!

First Dance

2008-04-21T21:36:00.011-04:00

Music has always played an intricate role in both of our lives. There is something about music and how it can make you feel--triggering vivid pictures of memories that will not be forgotten. Our mutual love for music has intwined itself into our relationship deeply. Looking for the perfect song to dance to as man and wife has been fun. Every once in a while I will stumble on a song I've never heard and fall in love with it. Regardless of if we choose it as our first dance song, it has been exciting discovering artists and some beautiful lyrics.

Here are a few that have struck a chord with me. =) Click on the link to listen to the song.

We are man and wife

We are One

Ready for love

You and me

To make her love me

Everything

The Luckiest

We haven't chosen a song yet, but there are some beautiful ones out there! If anyone stumbles across a song or has an opinon, let me know! So many choices. =)

Favors

2008-04-20T19:32:00.008-04:00

A couple of weeks into our engagement, Justin and I found this cute idea for our wedding favors. We thought it would be appropriate, since our wedding is in January. A perfect time to curl up on the couch; watching a movie and drinking some hot chocolate...

Then a couple of days ago, Rach found the cutest idea online and now i'm reconsidering my idea. We used to make these as kids and it would definitely add a personal touch to our wedding day.

It's a good way for our guests to get to know us because it would be filled with fun facts about Justin and my relationship, such as, our favorite restaraunt, where we met, etc. We definitely want to incorporate personal touches to make this wedding an experience for our guests.

New Additions

2008-04-17T12:25:00.009-04:00

Last night Rach, Christie and I went to a Pampered Chef Party, hosted by the lovely Sarah R. It's alot of fun now that I actually have a reason to buy all of this stuff!! Of course we had a good time and I came away with a few new additions to welcome into our future kitchen family.

Presenting

The Corn Butterer

and

The Juicer

These are a few of the things that we didn't have on our registry...That's how I justified it, if you're wondering. =D

It's the little things in life...

2008-04-15T09:43:00.008-04:00

Last night I finalized the sale of the bridesmaid's dresses!!!

I ordered them all at once (except sarah-- having hers shipped right to her is much easier!!). The woman at Ann Taylor could NOT have been more helpful! I highly recommend them. In fact the first of the 7 has shipped today! Katie yours is on its way to us!! Can't wait to see it!! It's fun having packages shipped; it's like getting a little gift every day. =)

And now something else to brighten your day. =D Just click on the picture to enlarge it!

Honeymoon

2008-04-11T23:23:00.033-04:00

Need I say more?

Our honeymoon will be a very precious time. Not only will it be our first vacation we take together as a married couple, but it is something that cannot be repeated. It will be engrained in our minds forever, encased in memories that will be shared between only Justin and I. Justin has taken the reins on all of the details and he has truly captured the dream getaway that we are both looking for. The only thing I know is that we are going to St. Lucia but that's it!! He is taking care of everything! I can't wait to see what he has planned for us. =) We both are looking forward to creating these irreplaceable memories!!

Bridesmaid Dress Selection

2008-04-10T15:12:00.008-04:00

I've chosen the bridesmaid dresses!

I have looked high and I have looked low, I've looked online...and in stores far and near. The first dresses I looked at were online at anntaylor.com. It was love at first internet sighting. Of course I wanted to see the dresses in person before making the big decision! My mom and I rode down to Ann Taylor in the Columbia Mall on Wednesday night and I must say...I wasn't disapointed at all! The dresses are gorgeous, the fabric is gorgeous, the color is gorgeous...everything about it...is gorgeous.

I have given each bridesmaid the option of choosing between 3 dresses.

Option 1

Option 2

Option 3

I love the color and the styles of these dresses and I think they will be perfect for an afternoon wedding!

Romantic Bride

2008-04-09T21:18:00.016-04:00

I've spent a lifetime dreaming of my prince, the castle, the fairy-tale ending.

My closet of frilly confections celebrates my femine side.

And why should my wedding dress be any different?

I can't wait to show it off on January 3rd!

Prince Charming: Check

Ring: Check

Ceremony Site: Check

Wedding Dress: Check

Almost done my list of things to do!

Untraditional Seating Cards

2008-04-08T08:34:00.008-04:00

These are seating cards with a twist! There are so many cute ideas out there! This is one of the more clever ideas I have seen. The only problem I forsee is guests piling in at once to the table looking for their names...but it is in alphabetical order! I guess we could assign an attendant to make things run more smoothly. Maybe we could do two rolodex's, one with the begininng of the alphabet and one with the second half. Any ideas?

Martha Stewart suggest this idea as a wedding guest book/address book..but we are thinking of doing a Photo guestbook for our wedding. Not sure yet, but there sure are alot of fun ideas!

A weekend full of fun

2008-04-06T16:21:00.009-04:00

Friday I was supposed to meet with the Overhills Mansion but the coordinator was out sick, so we had to reschedule it for this coming Friday afternoon, April 11th. I'll let you know how that goes!

Since that meeting was post-poned, my mom and I decided to stop by Juliets Bridal Boutique to check out the wedding dresses. This was my first time trying on dresses and this boutique was the perfect place to start! All of my sisters found their dresses there...and I may have found mine! I tried on about 5 and the last one I tried on felt like the one. I can't give too many details, don't want the hubby to be to have any idea what it looks like!

Saturday, the bridesmaids, my mom and I trekked up to David's Bridal in Willmington, Delaware to scope out the prospects on bridesmaid dresses. Each girl tried on about 3 dresses and it gave me an idea of how the styles looked on each. I also tried on some wedding dresses and fell in love with one of them there! We had a great time and I'm so glad I got to have all but one (we missed you sarah!) of my bridemaids together for the first time!

Justin and I also sat down and worked on the guest list together---we are shooting for 200 ppl and we are already finding it challenging to keep it at that amount!!

All in all, it was a great weekend and we got alot done. Things are definitely falling into place and I am feeling more and more like a bride. Life is good!

Island Bride

2008-04-03T14:36:00.006-04:00

I must admit, I'm a beach girl. Born and bred--I've spent probably every summer of my life sunscreened and tanned. I don't know if it's the sun and sand or the smell of the breeze off of the water--but whatever it is, it feels like home. So naturally, I will spend my honeymoon at the beach! (Right Justin??) Right now I wish I was at the beach...instead...I'm in Passport Hell. I've never been a detail oriented person...at least when it comes to paperwork. I'm trying to stay on top of this because I heard that the demand for passorts has increased tremendously, pushing back the estimated time of arrival to 6 months. Obviously, our wedding is in 9 months...woah...9 months!! AAAAH! I think I just had a panic attack. Well anyways, I took a look at the paperwork for this...I knew it would be tedious, but really...going on a scavenger hunt for my birth certificate is not what I had in mind when the pictures of tropical islands were floating through my brain. I have to get my butt in gear! If anyone has any advice, please feel free to help!

Our Ceremony Location

2008-04-02T11:44:00.001-04:00

The location has been chosen!!!!!

We will be saying our vows of love and devotion, binding us together... FOREVER...at...

The Haebler Memorial Chapel

This is our first decision that we have made towards our wedding day plans and I must say, it is a HUGE relief!! Knowing where we are having the ceremony will now make it much easier to nail down the reception venue. That's the next step in the process!

What is your Bridal Style?

2008-04-01T13:06:00.000-04:00

"Your Dream Wedding Quiz"

I was perusing some wedding website and stumbled on this post and I decided to take the quiz. I was scored as "Elegant Earth":

Since you most likely favor cashmere sweaters, little black dresses and diamond stud earrings, it's not surprising that your dream wedding is a classy, timeless affair. Hollywood brides who get married in teeny bikinis leave you cold; elegant style icons such as Audrey Hepburn, Grace Kelly and Jackie Kennedy inspire you. Although you have a penchant for rich flavors, luxurious fabrics and designer labels, you splurge only on things of lasting value and high quality. Your guests appreciate your meticulous attention to detail -- little touches such as artfully arranged welcome baskets, organized pre- and post-wedding activities and thoughtful wedding favors ensure a seamless, well-executed celebration that everyone will remember for years to come. A bonus: When you and your husband look at your wedding photos twenty years down the line, you'll be glad you didn't succumb to trendy hairstyles and fashions!

Sounds like I have alot of work cut out for me. =)

Save the date...Magnets?

2008-03-31T12:58:00.001-04:00

It seems like the most popular trend in getting the word out about your wedding date is magnets. I have to admit, they are adorable--and a good way to keep the wedding date clear in most people's minds. Since we are having our wedding around the holidays, we want to make sure everyone is aware of the date. For quite some time, I've had the look of my "save the date cards" plastered in my head--it's one I saw a long time ago that I love. It is similar to the photo booth pictures you get taken at the beach--very cute. This past weekend I found them in the same format, but as a magnet! Cute! I can't decide which one I like better....

The Flu Blues

2008-03-27T11:13:00.000-04:00

Sorry I didn't keep up on the wedding front last week--we were all in the midst of flu season! Thankfully that has passed and now I can move onto more wedding planning instead of spending most of my time with the porcelain bowl.

Today I called to set up an appointment with Overhills Mansion in Catonsville, MD. Our friends Brian and Brea had there reception there last year and it was beautiful! I wil be meeting with them on Friday, April 4th to discuss some of the options they offer. In the meantime, I am looking anywhere and everywhere for a reception site that holds approximately 200 people. I had no idea what a challenge this would be!

I'm also starting the dress hunt! I've been browsing some sites online to get an idea of what I like for the bridesmaids and so far I have found a few at Ann Taylor that I love.

I am thinking I would like to have each of the bridesmaids in a different style dress, depending on what is flattering on them, but have them all in the same color. The bridesmaids and I will be venturing out on April 5th to try on some dresses to see how they look!

Engagement Pictures/Engagement Party

2008-03-19T23:43:00.000-04:00

Engagement Pictures

We asked Jason to take some engagement pictures of Justin and I. A few months ago, they made an awesome purchase in getting a top-of-the-line digital camera, that seems to take the most amazing pictures....And it does! After church on sunday with it being just a little windy outside, we took a few minutes to pose for the camera. It's hard to capture the excitement we felt on the day of our engagement but with these pictures you can see how much in love we are. This was a fun day, I mean, how often do you have an excuse to set aside an afternoon completely dedicated to capturing fabulous pictures of each other! We have another photo shoot planned this weekend at rocks state park if the weather permits. Down below are just a few of the many pics that were taken.

The Party

My parents threw Justin and I an engagement party on Saturday, March 15th. We are so grateful that our families have had the opportunities to spend time getting to know one another before the big day. It seems like in today's society, the parents first meeting is on the wedding day! We are both truly blessed with wonderful families who love us and support us and care enough about us to make the effort to get to know each other. Our families are so important to both of us and we treasure the time that we spend with each person.

Location, Location, Location

2008-03-17T19:35:00.000-04:00

This past weekend we started the search for our first apartment!! However temporary this may be, we want wherever we stay to feel like home. Finding the right apartment seems like a very daunting task at first but it is very exciting considering this will be our first home together. There are so many factors to take into consideration-location, cost and reputation. We weren't completely wowed by the 1970's kitchen cabinets or the "spacious" living room/dining room, but just knowing that it will be our space to share somehow makes you look past all of the eyebrow raising, "I wonder why they did that" thoughts. Truth be told, I'm sort of spoiled in the decor area of my life, thanks to my fashion conscious mother, who seemed to climb right out of a Southern Living magazine. I'm sure we will find a place that fits us perfectly and our personalities will find a way to shine through. The search is still on!

We have furniture!!!

2008-03-13T08:18:00.000-04:00

Furniture

Fortunately we have been blessed with people in our lives that are very giving! Since Justin and I both live at home we feel like we are literally starting from scratch. That may be why the registering process seemed so overwhelming! We have several people who have offered to give us furniture--last night we went to Candace's to check out a few of the options. We are soo grateful to everyone that has offered to help us out!!!

I can't imagine trying to buy all new furniture when we are just starting out--I think that would be so stressful on our small but slowly growing bank account! It's amazing what God will provide when you just trust Him.

Oooh! A productive weekend!!

2008-03-10T14:20:00.000-04:00

Just when it was beginning to feel like we weren't getting ANYTHING accomplished--we planned a simple day out and about at the local stores registering. News Flash to Emily--Registering is not simple! Here are some of the comments you would have heard if you passed us in an aisle. "Do we get the toaster with 2 slots or 4 slots?" "But do you really need that many spatulas?!" "What do you do with a baster?" "What's the difference between a food processor and a blender?" "Ten place settings or twelve?" "Do these towels have to match?" "Brushed nickel, stainless steel or black?" "Why are these red wine glasses look like they are the size of my head?" "I have to go to the bathroom again."
I never thought I'd utter the words, "I'm all shopped out." But indeed, we walked out of the stores; tired, sore, delirious and all shopped out. It feels great to know that we have knocked one thing off of our list that seems like it is a million pages long!! Knowing that all of these items we are registering for are going to help to build our life together, makes this time even more exciting!!!
With all of that being said, we think we finished most of our registering!! Yay!!! We are registered at Target, Crate and Barrel and Bed, Bath and Beyond. We still have a few more things to add, but for the most part we are proud of ourselves for knocking that out of the way. One more step closer to being married!

Bridesmaid 101: My A-team

2008-03-06T13:03:00.000-05:00

Throughout my life there have been several people playing intricate roles in shaping my life and personality. Choosing my bridesmaids was not a tough choice because these are the people that are my support system. I knew as soon as I got engaged, there was no doubt in my mind about who I would ask!

The Line-up

Rachel Hall
Maid of honor and my sister

I would like to think that it was love at first sister sighting, but i'm not sure if Rachel remembers it that way. I was born about 2 weeks before Rach turned 2, but i'm not sure a sister is what she wanted for her birthday present. Regardless, she's been stuck with me since 1982 and we have been inseperable ever since. Rachel has been there for me through thick and thin and she has held my hand through many tough and exciting situations. Justin and I spend alot of time at Rachel and her husband Ryan's apartment in Havre de Grace, watching movies or playing cards-they have become our closest friends and two of our biggest supporters. It's hard to explain the bond between sisters, those of you who have a sister know exactly what i'm talking about!! Rachel will be standing next to me as I take the next step into marriage and I'm very proud to call her my maid of honor.
"Having a sister is like having a best friend you can't get rid of. You know whatever you do, they'll still be there."

Aimee Friedrich
Bridesmaid and sister

Early on in life Aimee instilled in me the value of finding a good sale. I remember being so excited that she wanted to take me to the mall and go shopping with ME, anytime I had a little bit of money, she was the one who helped me spend it! She always took time out of her schedule to spend with her little sister (by 8 years) and that has impacted our friendship to this day. She has paved the way for me and shown me patience that only an older sister has. She has given me 2 nephews and one niece and that has opened my eyes even more to what an amazing person and mother she is. One day, I hope to live up to the standard that Aimee has set, it will be tough!!!

Sarah Short
Bridesmaid and sister-in-law

It feels funny to say that Sarah is my "sister-in-law" because it seems like she has been in our family forever! I remember clearly the day that Jason brought her home to meet us--I knew right away I liked this girl. The first thing I noticed about her was her style...this girl has cute clothes! Next to that, I saw Jason's smile. Early on, we knew Jason was going to marry Sarah-even though they dated forever! She gives the best advice and I know it comes from her heart. She has been through alot and to see her constantly laughing and having a great time is inspirational to me and truly convicting. She has never felt like an in-law to me, from the day I met Sarah, she became family.

Candace Gischel
Bridesmaid and sister-in-law to be

If it wasn't enough to be blessed with marrying Justin, to top it all off I get to marry into an amazing family. From the beginning of our relationship, Candace has been one of our biggest supporters. She's never had a negative thing to say to me (unless she's keeping it all inside! better not!!!), but that has meant alot to me. She has always welcomed me into there family and made me feel at home. Our friendship has grown over the course of the last year and we are continuing to grow closer each day. She was a big catalyst in our engagement and that day wouldn't have been as special if she had not helped out! Candace has such a huge heart and I can't wait to meet the lucky guy that gets to put a ring on her finger!

Katie Wright
Bridesmaid and friend

We met at Pioneer Clubs in elementary school and re-found each other in college. Katie and I have always been able to pick up right were we left off--I know our friendship will last through our adult years. We've spent many nights out on the town, laughed alot, chased alot of boys and learned alot of lessons, together. Throughout the different phases of our lives, we've grown closer together, whether spending a night out or spending many, many nights cuddled up on the couch watching Matthew McConaughey movies, we always have a good time. I can always count on her to tell me the truth, even when it hurts, and to be a crying shoulder when things go bad. She's seen me through the ups and downs of life and has always stuck by my side. I treasure her frienship and I'm blessed to have her as my friend!

Kristianna Cooper
Bridesmaid and friend

I'll never forget the first day I met Kristianna Cooper. We both worked at Staples as cashiers and I remember she just seemed sad. After talking with her for a little while, she told me her and her boyfriend had just broken up. I said, oh man, me and my boyfriend just broke up too!! It seems like our friendship has always been that way...we seemed to go through alot of the same circumstances together, which made for alot of interesting conversations. =) We've spent alot of late nights laughing and crying together--which has brought us closer than some friends ever become. She is as close to me as family. I've always appreciated Kristianna's openess and honesty--she's always pushed me to become a better person and to keep my expectations high. She is one of the most amazing people I know and I am so thankful that she was placed in my life. There are some people in this world that you just automatically click with, kristianna is one of those people in my life. I always say if she was a man, I would have married her years ago. My life would be so different without Kristianna in it!

Christie Keplinger
Bridesmaid and friend

Christie is the type of friend that you feel like you have been friends with your whole life. We met at church about a year ago and my first impression of her was that she was one of the sweetest people I've ever met. In many of our conversations we find out how similar we are in our personalities and choices. I know it wasn't an accident that she was brought into my life--she has already made such a huge impact on me and I consider her to be my twin. =) She has a way of telling you how it is, without feeling judged. Having so much in common with someone makes it easy to be friends-God knew what he was doing when he sent her into my life. Everyone needs a Christie in there lives and I'm honored to call her my bridesmaid and friend.

So as you can see, I have some pretty amazing people in my life! I can't wait to have these girls up there with me when I take the plunge!!

The BLING!

2008-03-04T22:13:00.000-05:00

For those of you who haven't seen it in person yet!! It's the most gorgeous ring! Justin did such an amazing job choosing this ring for me. There is no other ring in the world that would be more perfect for me!

My new best friend

2008-03-03T12:27:00.000-05:00

When Rach got married, one of the first things we did was run to Barnes and Noble and scour the wedding books to find a Planner to keep everything organized. Not only do they give you great ideas, but they are a great way to keep organized. Anyone that has ever seen my room knows....i was not blessed with organizational skills. For years my parents have used various methods to try to get me in line, i.e. screaming and yelling, pleading, threatening and nicely asking.

So when Justin and I got engaged, Rach returned the favor. After flipping through about 20 different books, we concluded that this would be my new side kick during this chaotic and exciting time.

The Deal

2008-03-02T15:46:00.000-05:00

Hi everyone! I decided to start a wedding blog, to keep everyone in the loop with all of the details! We have been discussing ideas back and forth but have not come up with any permanent decisions as of yet.

We set a tentative date of January 3,2009!!!

Yesterday my mom, dad and I went to look at Goucher Haebler Memorial chapel, and it was gorgeous!

I have a few questions to ask, but I fell in love with this site right away for the ceremony. I'm waiting on a few return phone calls from a few more churches, then hopefully we can narrow down the ceremony site after seeing those sites.
We have a meeting with Valley Mansion this Wednesday night, to discuss the reception costs and ideas.

Last Thursday, we had our first premarital counseling meeting with Don Dove. It went really well and our next one will be in about 6 weeks. We have 5 meetings before our wedding to hash out everything!! =)

We also started a website on the knot!

That's all for now!!